Hey, Northern Californians! I'm heading your way this Saturday to talk about growing up between cultures at the Pleasanton Public Library. Apart from moi, it's going to be an adult-free event, so teens are welcome at 4 p.m. to join in on the conversation. After an hour or so, the library closes, I get kicked out, and the real fun begins -- movie, food, mendhi, and music. (Don't worry, I'll be relaxing in flannel jammies and drinking tea with my parents ... true bliss.)